“Neither shall a mother be made to suffer harm on account of her child, nor a father on account of his child.” (Quran 2:233)
If you have kids, and especially if you are going through a divorce, remember that no parent should ever have to suffer because of his or her kids. Don’t be unreasonable in seeking child support or visitation. Don’t turn your kids against your spouse. Sometimes a divorce is the best option for everyone involved, but an ugly divorce doesn’t help anyone.